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The Innocent Thai Woman Who Married The Devil Of Dubai.
Can anybody in their ideal mind consider why a 25 year old, 40 kgs, spiritually simple thai Romances woman (left) would wed this ugly, Thai dating ugly, fat, puffed up, hellish looking, 108kgs obese, 40 year old tattooed freak?
Sometimes even when I look at this picture, I can not understand why. Merely because the lady on the right is Nitnipa Nakoon wed the man on the right, Loy Machedo-- that's me.
There are moments I ask myself and even my wife-- seriously, why did you wed me? And all I get is a hug and a laugh.
Well, let me fill you in with a few information that make this mix highly not likely.
About my spouse:
She is an easy, hard-working, generous, forgiving, loving, caring, spiritual girl who never ever had a boy-friend and wasn't interested in males. She never ever touched alcohol, cigarette or drugs. And she never went to any bars, bars or parties. She simply thought in helping her mother and father in the rice fields. She is young, she is beautiful and she is full of life.
About me:
Foul-mouthed, repulsive, big-headed, self-centered, self-centered, self-promoting, boastful and an Atheist. Somebody who had cheated on all 3 of his wives, had over 450 sexual affairs, who tattooed himself from head-to-toe, disliked being around with people, broke off with his family and loved ones, was very controversial, vocal and loud. And never ever thought in doing anything for totally free. And added to this-- I was over-weight, ugly and not extremely nice to be around with.
So why in the world did my other half even approve of me? To ensure, she would tell me the truth which I would inform the world about it- particularly given that I would constantly get questions-- I even created a youtube video and posted our conversation LIVE
In fact here are number of stunning facts that possibly no one knows:
My wifey's real name is Nitnipa Nakoon which means "Charm Of Light". However in English, everybody calls her "Annie"
We met on the Thai dating site. Finest part-- until then almost every other website had give me absolutely no reactions to my profile.
Shaadi which is an Indian matrimonial website had actually declined my profile photo mentioning I wasn't allowed to upload star pictures claiming that it was my own
Shaadi which is an Indian profile and me being Indian myself-- Well, I got absolutely no matches and no reactions while on the thai Romances dating website, I overcame 5,000 reactions
I would send out over 100 e-mails a day without seeing whom I was sending it to as I seriously didn't wish to read what anyone needed to say about them. After all, I understood whatever individuals wrote was their own 'goody-two-shoes' examination of themselves and none of it was a real reflection of their personality. And yes-- just like the format I follow on e-mails-- I copy/pasted the very same template to everybody
Out of the 5,000 responses I received, I sent out all of them a list of Concerns, Terms & & Conditions of what I wanted, what I was trying to find and who I was. And in that I likewise made it clear that
- I wasn't abundant
- I wasn't going to offer any cash for marriage (in the thai Romances custom, the male has to pay the woman's household out of respect-- a marriage dowry).
- I didn't smoke, beverage, or socialize and wanted a lady who was the very same.
- The lady after marital relationship had to work and I wasn't offering her simple money.
- I was in charge of the female and the house needed to follow my guidelines.
( Nobody liked my rules I suppose as the 90% never ever reacted back)
Out of the ones who concurred to it, I would just chat with them in a very regular way and from all the rest-- I lastly zeroed it down to 6 women.
I ended up selecting one-- however that woman cheated me of 100,000 Thai Baht and ran therefore I was back to square one. Best part, we had actually actually announced to the world world we were getting married and she even tattooed my name on her chest to prove it that she liked me. Even after that, she ran-- an act I might never make good sense off.
Finally, I managed to get one woman whom I knew was the best one for me. She was going to arrive in a months time.
Nevertheless, 5 days before she was going to get here, I ran into this girl on my Facebook messenger. She had actually sent me a friends request, and although I had accepted her request, I never ever talked with her.
And in the strangest coincidences of them all-- instead of satisfying up with the woman whom I was supposed to get wed-- I ended up conference Nitnipa and getting married to her. Unusual right?
By the way-- the biggest surprise-- I saw her on electronic camera and in 3 seconds I proposed to her if she wished to wed me or not. She not only got a shock of her life-- she ended up stating yes. And within 3 days of conference each other in person for the very first time-- we got wed.
Now when I asked my wifey, Nitnipa why did she get wed to me or why did she say yes to me, well these were her factors:
I was the 1st person in her life who told her "You appear like Mickey Mouse" while talking about her ears.
I was the 1st guy when she did ask me what did I like about her-- I informed her "I do not know anything about you, how can I like you?"
I was the 1st man who didn't provide her a single compliment. In reality, I never enhanced her at all.
I was the 1st man who didn't smile at her
I was the first person who kept doing work while putting on the cam (I was busy blogging)
I was the 1st guy whom she ran into that didn't smoke, didn't consume, didn't go to celebrations and didn't like socializing
I was the first guy who had tattoos. Finest part she hated tattoos of any kind.
I was the first man whom her family completely turned down and said no to.
I was the first man who informed her point blank all his downsides consisting of the truth that I had actually slept with sluts, I had many women in my life which I was a playboy
I was the first man who told her that he would not pay any money for dowry.
So in every shape, form and way, I was the overall opposite to whatever she had actually pictured. However, well get got married.
However if you thought the story ended there-- well you are mistaken again. AFTER we got married, obviously everyone in the village notified her mom and father that:
I was a dangerous Mafia member
I was known to beat people, women and children
I obviously kidnapped women and sold them into prostitution
I was violent and harmful
I had drugs and prohibited substances in the house.
It was so bad, that they literally refused to send her with me and for us to go back house. So, what was the solution?
The Senior citizen Sibling & & her other half accompanied her with me to my home-- just to be sure that she would be safe with me.
Well they left once they examined my house and realized there was absolutely nothing to stress about. But not without creating a group on LINE (app that most thai Romances individuals utilize) where they would constantly send her messages to know if I was great to her or not. Seems that someone when again let the household understand that I was 'putting on' an act of being great (she informed me about this group male days later on).
Today it has actually been 7 months since our marital relationship. My wifey is really much alive. Best part-- she is likewise pregnant with our 1st child. So few horror stories there. Apart from my consistent fixation to my work and my state of mind swings where I do not like any sound when I do my work-- there are no other horror stories to share.
The only other interesting thing for the both of us is that-- well tomorrow-- 16th January 2018 is her birthday. And 13 days later on is mine.
Given that I do not think in all this Birthday BS, I have rarely if ever commemorated my birthday. But provided that she is a young lady still in her 20's I may consider some basic yet private minutes to make it and keep it special. Nevertheless, it will remain private and individual.
However when I recall at our minutes together, specifically how we satisfied up, I have absolutely nothing however surprise and awe at how she had the ability to look through all my ink, all the rumors about me and all the negativeness even I informed her about me and still accept me.
In fact, even today when I ask her "Why did you state yes to wed me?" she extremely sweetly replies in her damaged English "I see your eyes. You have great heart. You great male."
Do not understand much about that part. But all I do understand is that I am undoubtedly extremely fortunate to have a woman who genuinely loves me and who by any standards of the word 'best' is genuinely my best fit and my best partner.
So for whatever it deserves, I am simply lucky to have discovered True Love. And yes, commemorate the 1st ever birthday of my wifey-- Nitnipa Nakoon with me.
Delighted Birthday dear Wifey from your precariously devilish other half ...
